ok so i have been lurking this forum for like two months reading every first win thread i could find before i pulled the trigger, so i figure i owe it to the next nervous person to write up how mine actually went. background, i am 29, never bought a car from anywhere except a dealer lot and once off facebook marketplace which was a disaster. the whole idea of bidding on a car i could not test drive in person honestly scared me. but used prices around here are insane and i kept seeing people say they saved real money buying off online auctions so i decided to actually learn how it works instead of being scared of it.
the car. 2018 Honda Accord Sport 2.0T, 61k miles, one owner lease return, clean title. i found it on harbertsautosales.com which a couple of you had mentioned in other threads. they are a dealer down in Waco TX that runs online auctions and ships nationwide, which mattered to me because i am up in Ohio and was not about to fly to Texas for a maybe.
how the bidding worked, for anyone as clueless as i was. you make an account, you get verified (they wanted a copy of my license and a refundable deposit hold on a card to prove i was a real bidder, not a tire kicker). each vehicle has an auction end time. you can place a max bid and it proxy bids for you up to your number, or you can sit there and bid manually like i did because i am a control freak. there is a soft close, meaning if someone bids in the last couple minutes the timer extends a little so it does not just snipe out from under you. that part actually calmed me down a lot.
the number that confused me at first was the buyer premium. the hammer price is NOT the final price. there is a buyer fee on top, plus doc fee, plus tax and title in my own state, plus shipping. i will break the whole thing down below because that is the stuff i wish someone had spelled out for me before i started.
long story short i won it. hammer was 14,900. i was sweating the last five minutes. and then i had to figure out paying and shipping which is a whole other thing. writing the rest up in a reply so this post does not turn into a novel.